If you are alone, please be utterly alone. Don’t make it as a cover-up to hide that you hate being alone. More often than not, the fact that no one is here for us makes us think that we do not need other people to fulfill us, but that is not the case, people will still ignore us: and that will not change. For those people who feel alone, be proud of it, it is what you are, live and play with it. Do not act like you can be all alone when in fact you could not. This is self-deception, not something worth being proud of.
If you are dirty, be dirty, don’t act like you are pure.
If you are unhappy, be unhappy, don’t act like you are in joy.
If you are confused, be confused, don’t act like you’ve got it all figured out.
Sometimes it is not the negative aspects that make us suffer, we suffer because we want to become someone we are not, the escape only makes us more alienated than ever, from ourselves and the world.